Gabriella Pomare – Partner and Sydney Family Lawyer
Gabriella Pomare is a leading Sydney family lawyer and Partner at Norton Law Group, a specialist family law firm based in Sydney CBD.
Having practised exclusively in family law since 2010, Gabriella advises and represents clients in complex parenting disputes, high-net-worth property settlements, international family law matters and cases requiring urgent court intervention.
She is known for combining strong legal advocacy and strategic, commercially focused advice with a contemporary understanding of co-parenting, relationship breakdown and modern family dynamics.
Complex Parenting and Family Law Matters
Gabriella regularly appears in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia and has extensive experience in complex and high-stakes family law proceedings.
Her areas of practice include:
- Complex parenting and child custody disputes;
- Parenting arrangements following separation;
- Relocation and international parenting matters;
- Matters involving allegations of family violence or risk;
- Urgent parenting applications and recovery matters;
- Property settlements and division of assets;
- High-net-worth and complex financial proceedings;
- Companies, trusts, businesses and property portfolios;
- Spousal maintenance and child support;
- Binding Financial Agreements, including prenuptial and postnuptial agreements; and
- International and cross-border family law disputes.
Gabriella has acted for clients residing throughout Australia and internationally, including clients with connections to the United Kingdom, United States, Europe, Hong Kong, Dubai, Saudi Arabia and other parts of the Middle East and Asia.
Strategic Representation and Dispute Resolution
Gabriella provides clear, realistic advice tailored to each client’s circumstances, priorities and long-term objectives.
She is skilled in negotiation, mediation and alternative dispute resolution while also being an experienced and decisive family law litigator when court intervention is required.
Gabriella is formally trained in Collaborative Practice and is a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals. She supports clients in resolving disputes outside the Court where appropriate, without compromising the need for strong representation, financial protection or child-focused outcomes.
Her approach recognises that no two families are the same and that no family law strategy should be created from a template.
Legal Career and Judicial Experience
Gabriella began her legal career in the family law team of a prominent Greater Sydney law firm before serving as Legal Associate to the Honourable Justice Watts of the Family Court of Australia.
Her experience within the Court gave her valuable insight into judicial decision-making, the assessment of evidence and the preparation of complex parenting and financial cases.
Gabriella joined Norton Law Group and was appointed Partner – Family Law in 2020.
She is admitted as a solicitor of the Supreme Court of New South Wales and the High Court of Australia. Gabriella holds a Bachelor of Arts and Bachelor of Laws from the University of New South Wales.
Her international academic experience includes studying Chinese Law in Beijing and Human Rights Law at Columbia University in New York, contributing to her understanding of international and cross-border legal issues.
Professional Recognition
Gabriella has been consistently recognised for her work in family law, leadership and thought leadership.
Australasian Lawyer Top 50 Female Lawyers Elite Women – 2024 and 2026
Family Law Partner of the Year – Finalist, 2022, 2023, 2024, 2025 and 2026
Women in Law Awards Partner of the Year – SME – Finalist, 2023, 2024 and 2025
Stevie Awards for Women in Business Achievement in Thought Leadership – Finalist, 2026 & Best Female Podcast Host – Finalist, 2026
American Business Awards Bronze Stevie Award – Achievement in Thought Leadership, 2026
2026 Influential Businesswoman Awards Most Influential Family Law Changemaker
Author, Podcast Host and Media Commentator
Beyond her legal practice, Gabriella is an internationally published author, speaker, podcast host and family law and relationships commentator.
She is the author of The Collaborative Co-Parent, published internationally by Morgan James Publishing. The book provides separated parents with a practical framework for reducing conflict, improving communication and creating a more sustainable family relationship across two homes.
Gabriella is also the host of Before It Breaks, a podcast examining relationships, conflict, separation, repair and the conversations that can change what happens next.
Her second book, Before It Breaks: A Modern Guide to Love, Conflict, Repair and the Conversations That Change Everything, will be published by Simon & Schuster on 2 March 2027.
Gabriella is regularly called upon as a commentator on family law, co-parenting and modern relationships. She has appeared or been featured across Australian and international media, including ABC, NBC, CBS, FOX, The Guardian, The Australian, Forbes, The Today Show and The Morning Show.
A Modern Voice in Family Law
Gabriella’s work extends beyond the technical application of family law. Through her legal practice, books, media work and podcast, she examines the practical and emotional realities that influence family law disputes, including communication breakdown, parenting across two homes, financial dependence, high-conflict family dynamics and the changing structure of modern families.
She believes effective family law representation requires more than knowing the law. It requires judgement, strategy, emotional intelligence and a clear understanding of how the proposed outcome will operate in the client’s life.
Gabriella works closely with Senior Partner Franco Pomare, a Law Society of NSW Accredited Specialist in Family Law since 1994, and the Honourable Louise Henderson, a former Justice of the Family Court of Australia who has joined Norton Law Group as a family law mediator.
Together with Norton Law Group’s broader legal team, this combines decades of specialist family law experience, contemporary thinking and former judicial insight.
Contact Gabriella Pomare
Gabriella advises clients in complex parenting disputes, property settlements, high-net-worth financial matters, international family law and urgent court proceedings.
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